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GET TO KNOW US
Since 2010, we’ve been dedicated to create safer spaces for self-discovery and growth.
Who’s Behind It?
Daniel Joseph Hayes
Touch&Play Founder
A medical doctor (M.D.) and epidemiologist (Ph.D.), professional mediator, Contact Improvisation teacher, and social entrepreneur.
Dr. Daniel J. Hayes is a medical doctor with a Ph.D. from the Liverpool School of Tropical Medicine. Back in the days he collaborated with the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation where he led malaria research projects.
He is the founder of Vidàlia, an eco-village an hour outside of Barcelona. Currently, he serves as the Executive Director of Earthdance Creative Living Project Inc., an artistic and cultural centre, and the world’s oldest Contact Improvisation community, based in Massachusetts, USA. He is also a partner in Camp, a beautiful retreat centre located on the Pacific Coast of Oaxaca in Zipolite, Mexico.
Touch&Play sprouted from Daniel’s deep immersion into and questioning of the form and culture of Contact Improvisation and its global community.
Contact Improvisation is a post modern dance form that started in the 1970’s in the US and was born from an exploration of what happens when two bodies meet in space. Daniel began wondering about what was truly happening in Contact Improvisation spaces, where he observed an incongruence between what people said should be happening and what he personally experienced and observed happening, both on and off the dance floor.
He noticed how, often, individuals with more skills and perhaps less awareness could subtly assert their will, disregarding the needs of others with less experience. He saw this dynamic repeatedly, where experienced men would take newcomers and seduce them into sensual and sexual connections.
He started questioning: What would happen if we began discussing attraction, sexuality, power… in our dances and in our community? What would happen if we would, rather than to ignore or hide these parts of our human nature, we actually welcome the exploration of these deep motivations that drive each individual to want to come and dance?
Our needs are beautiful. The strategies we employ aren’t always equally so. And what if they could be? What if heart, reason, and instinct converged and integrated into the same duet?
With these questions in mind and after many conversations, in 2010 German Choreographer and conceptual artist Felix Ruckert offered Daniel his dance space in Berlin to create a space where desires could be explored honestly and communicated effectively, fostering deeper connections in an environment where play and possibilities abounded.
This is how Touch&Play was born, Since that first memorable event many have followed and currently smaller and larger Touch&Play retreats are taking place in many different countries, in Europe, North and South America and Australia.
At that point, consent wasn’t addressed on the dance floor, and the event sparked debate and strong feelings in the global community, with some accusing Touch&Play of perverting Contact Improvisation and making the dance floor an unsafe space. However, Touch&Play was pioneering in bringing consent into our dances, and what we’ve observed is the opposite effect: engaging in conversations about power, desires, and needs has brought a more robust and deeper framework to explore our relational dynamics.
Igna Alem
T&P Work&Play Coordinator
(She/they/he). I was born and raised in Cochabamba, Bolivia, and I feel like a child of the world. I’ve been traveling and living a semi-nomadic life for the past four years, meditating since I was twelve, running a business for 14 years, facilitating family constellations, and loving life. I’ve been polyamorous for over 10 years. I became part of the T&P tribe after the first event I attended, as it was one of the most transformative experiences of my life. I’m eager to keep playing and co-creating safer spaces to connect with honesty and mutual care. See you soon!
@ignuish
Queralt Jorba
T&P Global Coordinator
A psychologist and psychotherapist specializing in human relationships, trauma healing, and personal growth,
With over fifteen years of experience in psychology and somatics, Queralt supports individuals and couples in exploring depth, authenticity, and unconventional paths. Rooted in a Catalan family and shaped by years of living in intentional communities, she brings a profound understanding of group dynamics and organizational culture.
Her everyday choices and the way she raises her children reflect her commitment to creating a better world.
Queralt has been part of nurturing the Touch&Play organization since its inception.
Organized events
People accompanied
Years of experience
The main local organisers are:
Liv
T&P MEXICO
She is an Ashkenazi Kohein, a woods witch, a Sociologist, an erotic adventurer, and a community creature. She gets equally excited about exploring the world and sweeping her floor at home.
She has listened deeply and taken in wisdom from brilliant teachers in the realms of somatics, kink, tantra, ritual arts, earth-based healing, and liberation theology. She is an organizer with the international Touch&Play project, an ongoing student with the International School of Temple Arts, and has led numerous artist & activist communities. Her own journey with mental (un)wellness and personal empowerment has been her greatest teacher and instilled a passion for accompanying others towards the water. She sings, writes, hurts and heals, and you are welcome to join her. To connect with Liv: https://www.mybodyprayer.com/
Mara
T&P Mexico and Social Media Manager
Karin Flores
T&P Brasil
She has been a movement researcher for 17 years. Her desire to delve deeper into somatics led her to study body therapies and since 2010 she has dedicated herself to studies related to body sensitization and sexuality.
Karin is a somatic therapist (Somatic Experiencing) with expertise in trauma work and personal development, accompanies partnerships (non-monogamic relationalships), is a bodyworker and facilitates experiences related to exploring and listening to the body. She is deeply interested in weaving experiences connected to touch, eroticism and healthy communication. Building conscious human relationships is her priority in life and in the professional sphere.
Maiene Horbylon
T&P Brasil
Maiene Horbylon has spent more than 15 years working in the creative and cultural market in Brazil. Initially trained in architecture and urbanism, the artist’s career has been totally permeated by the search for synergy between people, spaces and causes, driving collaborative and networked formats.
As well as being a cultural producer and manager of collective spaces, in 2017 her career path was given a precious boost when her constant musical curiosity led Maiê to her first performances as a DJ. Now she brings all this knowledge together to provide cosy, light and fun experiences.
Manuela Bosch
T&P GERMANY
Manu is a facilitator and guide for transformational experiences in groups, organisations and individuals. Manu works with various unconventional techniques that include body, consciousness and nature, such as Social Presencing Theater, Dragon Dreaming and Rites of Passage. At Touch&Play Germany Manu is holding the production lead, coordinating with coordinators and teachers and is holding up with all the team the T&P purpose of exploring the Relational Body.
“All of what I have to offer emerged out of my choice of exploring my edges. On the edge, I’m touching upon the taboos – such as intimacy, money, privilege and witchcraft. As I do not want to grow in only one direction, I practice different things. And I share them. Wrapped as workshops, trainings, journeys, retreats, festivals and projects of all kind. What I share is what I love to practice. “If healing is the new
punk, my practice is my form of protest.”
Anne Maria Popanda
T&P COLOGNE
Anni is dedacted deeply to exploring the realms of being human. She spent the last 15 years traveling intensively, learning from inter-cultural experiences, relationships, understandings… and studying various ancient traditions such as Yoga, Tantra (Kashmiri Shivaism), Thai Yoga Bodywork, Ayurveda, Vipassana, Shamanism along with modern somatic approaches and embodiment practices. She is Gestalt Therapist and Trauma sensitive Coach (Neurosystemic Integration), facilitator of various Workshops on the topic of (Sexual-) Self-Empowerment and passionate Dancer. In 2022 she organized the first Touch&Play Cologne gathering. IG & Fb: aditibodywork //Web: aditibodywork.de
Beata Abselon
T&P GERMANY
Beate or Beata – both names suit her German-Polish background – designs workshops, gatherings, and counseling sessions that invite participants to engage with the fact that people are inconvenient. Rather than trying to eliminate or gloss over this reality, she finds it worthwhile to recognize and work with it, as it forms the basis of ethical relating.
Drawn to fractures and friction, she pursued a PhD on consent and published her book Not Giving a F*ck, which explores the erotics of failure and the importance of non_sexual liberation. Although she dislikes the word “coaching,” that’s basically what she offers in her one-on-one settings, supporting clients in their intimate lives. Next to that, she is part of the workshop collective luhmen d’arc, currently preparing her retreat Tantra with a pinch of salt.
luhmendarc.com
IG: @beateabsalon
Lee Bolton
T&P UK
I have always been a kind of explorer and researcher of life. Always asking questions. Generally a little outside of convention. For the past 12 years my offering has been facilitating the exploration of movement and dance, mostly improvisation, enquiring into the nature of relationship and being here. I have a deep interest in the ‘unseen’, that which connects us all as the fabric of life.
Sometimes life is smooth and delicious and often it’s as clunky as hell. I’m constantly learning how to gracefully bring it all the table.
Jamus Wood
T&P UK
I dance, I explore and I have an innate curiosity for life. Deeply influenced and rooted by the practices of Body Mind Centering, Contact Improvisation, explorations into The Land and Embodied Consciousness. Currently I am exploring the more than human relationship with Dartmoor and the question of what does the land remember.
TouchandPlay has been a rich place of learning, experiencing and play over the last ten years, so much so that I find myself as part of the organising teach for this unique and exciting experience.
Akasha - Janine Leagh
T&P AUSTRALIA
Akasha lives a life in service and in response to the omnipresent life force energy. She bows in reverence to the Sacred Self and believes it not separate to the human experience. British born but a wanderer by nature, she worked on Cruise Ships before residing in Australia until 2020. A teacher’s teacher, facilitator, mentor, Somatic trauma therapist and student of the Conscious Movement arts she has facilitated students Internationally for over 25yrs.
Marie Echo aka Murry Eyeball
T&P Massachusetts
Marie/Murry’s (fae/they/she/eyeball) primary partnership is with the meandering magic of the Muse. Living in devotion to creativity, fae shapeshifts between and beyond archetypal roles of boundless bard, dream druid, death doula, & cosmic clown creature. Their offerings are a convergence of creativity, connectivity, sensuality & ritual. Murry has facilitated several intensives and labs at Touch & Play Mexico & US, exploring the ecosensual & archetypal somatics of intimate explorations. Both a contact dancer & vocal improviser, the union of movement and sound is at the core of her practice of somatic instrumentation. In reverence & revelry- Eye am so delighted to play and pray with you all.
IG @musemundi
Camila Luco
T&P Argentina
Chilean dancer and constellations facilitator, residing in Argentina since 2017. Teacher of Conscious Physical Training and Dance, somatic movement researcher and creator in improvisation and relational intelligence. She accompanies processes of psychosomatic self-discovery, trained in Evolutionary Breathing and Family Constellations.
She holds a degree in Dance and Dance Pedagogy from Universidad Arcis (2015); certified as an Evolutionary Breathing Facilitator (2019) and in Family Constellations (2024). Her research explores methodologies of dance composition through improvisation techniques such as CTR, Instant Composition, Contact Improvisation, Performance, Contemporary Dance; somatic practices such as Feldenkrais and Eutony; and the facilitation practices of Evolutionary Breathing and Family Constellations.
She has been co-organizer, producer, and facilitator at the nature-based festivals Touch&Play (Argentina, 2023 and 2024) and Ecossoma (Brazil, 2021).
She has taught seminars and dance and improvisation classes in France, Chile, Brazil, and Argentina. Currently, she works as a producer and teacher at the School of Evolutionary Breathing.
@cam_luco
Vimeo/camluco
Trinidad Garcia Espinosa
T&P Barcelona
Performer /activist/ creator
Equally interested in the somatic field, the performance and improvisation, postfeminism and gender politics, identities, practices unconventional sexuality and relationships.
“I come from the field of culture, the performative feminist field of discourse analysis, dedicated to the training and prevention of sexist violence, through the movement for the promotion and coeducation in schools and institutes in sexual education. I’m as well interested with performance improvisation, post-feminism and gender politics, identities and sexual practices and unconventional relationships”.
Trinidad has been working regularly as a contact improvisation teacher since 2001 in Barcelona and at festivals such as the New year festival of Barcelona, dances Summer festival, Freiburg Contact festival, Madrid contact festival, in touch festival, Dance Here project, Xplore among others
Frank Kelleter
T&P HORSEBACK JOURNEY
Frank, founder of Travel and Transformation.
izēki • molina
T&P Global Assistant
Enthusiasmer and Californian Massage Therapist. He accompany personal transformation processes. Self-taught entrepreneur, community operator and communicator. www.amoraccion.com IG: @izeki.molina
More about ize
He studied Medicine, which he dropped to dedicate himself to the performing arts. He played as an actor and Theater Director and Head of Vegetarian/Vegan Cuisine at Centro Umepay, Argentina. He gets excited by human life as a whole. He gets enthusiastic when exciting and adds value by encouraging everyone to be who they want to be, in complete freedom, in their best possible version and training his existence in not judging anyone for his wounds, dimensioning ourselves.
He gets turned on by disruptive action and the enjoyment of small things. He is attracted to vincularity and free love, researching sexuality, technology, writing and humor. He lives at Umepay, an eco-village in Argentina, a Human Laboratory. Currently on the move, nomad around the world, specifically experiencing the south of
Artists, Photographers & Videophotographers
Various T&P editions
Anna Maynard, Aeric Meredith-Goujon, Shay Au Lait, Natalia Osiatynska, Dan Farberoff, Blanco, Daniela Duskova, Eslerh, Len Metcalf, Gerardo Merc, Marina Tsartsara.
Past Organisers:
Beu, Alyssa Lanes, Moti Zemelman, Hazel, Kshanty, Kelindah, Ully, Katya, Ale.
Delving Deeper into Touch&Play
Touch&Play integrates dance, contact Improvisation and somatics with the realms of relationships, community and consciousness.
We orchestrate experiential retreats in diverse corners of the world, all in service of personal growth, authentic expression, relational vitality, and erotic intelligence.
Always within a robust framework of consent.
Touch&Play serves as a rich tapestry, encompassing a spectrum of arts and sciences, all dedicated to the cause of human connections. Within our realm, dance is our language, and we champion a culture of consent, attentive listening, and unwavering respect.
It stands as a singular haven for embracing and expressing one’s entire self, thoughtfully and freely amalgamating societal taboos and shadows.
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